Just here to rock out, catch up with your friends, and blow off some steam from your stressful-ass work week? Too bad! The networker, an opportunist who seems to miss the entire point of friends and music, is here to turn everything into a future business deal! This person talks up their new YouTube series, DJ night, or bona fide business skills on social media so much that you muted them months ago. They still haven’t learned – and will maybe never learn – that the best way to “network” is to never use the word “network”. If they’d just chill out and be friendly to people, they’d probably make all the business contacts in the world. But since every bit of empty chitchat is leading up to asking you about how work is going and, in turn, what they can get from you, it’s tough to want believe they really want your friendship.
Signature move: Pressuring you to let them pay for your meal, your drinks, whatever – under the assumption you’ll reciprocate by doing something for them down the line.
Best defence: Give them your business card… from two jobs ago.